Before I was dating my now wife, I was heavily friend zoned by her. She would go to church on Sundays and I would pretend to be interested and join. She would invite me to go to plays and things and I'd always agree.
She never had a boyfriend, and either was completely oblivious to how I was following her, or she secretly loved the attention. (I should ask her) I'm a shy guy and could not work up the courage to ask her out.
Someone else had the courage to ask her out and they dated. I was still her "best friend" that would go to church and other random things that she wanted to do. All the while I would hear about her boyfriend. Things he would do for her, how amazing he was, etc.
Then came the fateful day. She asked me if I had ever had sex before. I hadn't at the time, not because I didn't want to but more because I was afraid of the consequences and didn't understand safe sex. (thanks parents)
She had lost her virginity with him, and before I lost mine. She told me about it. She wasn't trying to make it a sexy story in any fashion. I won't go into details because it would lose appeal. But she told me about it none the less, she told me I would enjoy it when I had sex.
She would tell me about it a few more times before they broke up. Usually when something new would happen like using various "props".
Trust me, it was disheartening at the time. Now that we are married though, those are some good memories.
FUCK MY WIFE!